Thursday, December 8, 2016

Heads Up! Eco Flowers 25% off Coupon Code | NJ Wedding Flowers

Big SALE on Forever Flowers from Eco Flower!

 If you're in the market for an eco-friendly wedding bouquet, centerpieces or something else that's wedding flowers related, then check out the sale they're having at Eco Flower. What an awesome concept... wedding flowers that will last forever!

I didn't invest in flowers for my own frugal NJ wedding... I had a friend paint flowered centerpieces instead. But if I had known about Eco Flower, maybe I would have! Just think, you can decorate for your big day, then keep your Eco Flowers to beautify your home, recycle for other family occasions such as Christenings, Bridal Showers, Baby Showers, Communions, Bat Mitsvahs, Anniversary Celebrations and whatever else you can think of.

So yeah... check out the big 25% off Sale being offered at Eco Flower until December 12, 2016. They've got a coupon code for you and everything. It's SAVE25.

Forever Flowers are the way to go for your NJ budget-friendly wedding!



Wednesday, November 30, 2016

Another Rustic Farm Wedding Venue in South Jersey

Here's some lovely video footage of a wedding that took place at DeMeo Bluberry Farms of Hammonton, NJ. I have never been there, but I can tell by the 609 area code that its must be South Jersey. For those in the market for a DYI rustic farm wedding, this could be your lucky day!

If you're the owner of a NJ farm and want to advertise your wedding venue, please contact us on Facebook. Thanks!


Monday, November 21, 2016

Something Blue - Embroidered Wedding Keepsake

I was just roaming Etsy looking for holiday gifts when I came upon this embroidered gem by Sew Happy Girls. Could not resist sharing!

I was actually trying to figure out what it is. The Etsy page says "wedding dress label." I guess you could do pretty much whatever you want with it! Christmas tree decoration?

Order your own, hand embroidered Something Blue in time for your big day!




Sunday, November 20, 2016

Live Boudoir Photo Shoot in the Snow

Beautiful boudoir model Julia Stalker
is ready to brave the cold!
Came downstairs this morning to find snow on the ground, and an eager little boy pulling on his light-up Star Wars boots to explore the white-dappled backyard. After preparing a quick pancake and sausage meal, I checked into Facebook to discover The Scarlet Fox Boudoir doing a live photo shoot on this lovely, wintry morning.

The other day I posted about The Scarlet Fox Boudoir offering boudoir photography as a wedding gift. This is perfect for the bride to surprise her hubby-to-be. Or, if the bridesmaids want to go in on a boudoir photo shoot for the bride, that could be a really cool and creative group wedding present!

Astin Benedetto of The Scarlet Fox Boudoir has just posted her photography session with her lovely model. Beautiful hair, gorgeous dress... perfect, romantic snowy scene at Weeble Wobble Honey Farm in Warren County, NJ.

So much good, creative stuff to love here!

Check out the video of these awesome ladies on location this morning! And if you want to learn more about a Boudoir Photo Session for your upcoming wedding, visit www.thescarletfoxboudoir.com.





Friday, November 18, 2016

Boudoir Photography... Now THAT's a Wedding Gift to Remember

Some brides and grooms give each other a special gift to remember their wedding by. Are you one of them? Whether you just got engaged or your wedding is next month, here's a spicy little something for him to cherish for always: Boudoir Photography.

The Scarlett Fox Boudoir is run by my talented photographer friend Astin Benedetto of Warren County, NJ. Astin will set the scene for your beautiful, intimate boudoir photography session that hubs is sure to love.

Learn about a boudoir photography session for your wedding. Image copyright The Scarlet Fox Boudoir.


Brides of all sizes, shapes and styles will find always something special to highlight in their boudoir session with Astin. He's marrying you, and yes, he thinks you're sexy and beautiful. So celebrate that with private and precious engagement or wedding photos to share between the two of you.

If you're not sure about a boudoir photo session, talk to Astin. Tell her your likes and dislikes, your personality, your "signature sexy," and all those ways he finds you unique and amazing, inside and out.

Bridesmaids, this could make a great wedding gift for the bride to share with her man! Talk to her and find out if this is something she might enjoy. 


Learn about a boudoir photography session for your wedding. Image copyright The Scarlet Fox Boudoir.


Let your beauty shine for your upcoming wedding and to rekindle your love through the years. Contact Astin to schedule your boudoir photography session today:


https://thescarletfoxboudoir.com/contact/

 


Thursday, November 10, 2016

Mongrammed Christmas Wedding Ornaments for the Holiday Season Bride and Groom

Looking for a special gift for the holiday-season bride and groom?

Brides, searching for a sweet little token wedding gift for your hubby-to-be? 

Explore hand-etched, monogrammed and personalized gifts from AtHomeWithPennie. Order this personalized, monogrammed, glass Christmas ornament in time for your first Christmas together as a married couple!


This hand-etched, monogrammed Christmas ornament makes a sweet Christmas wedding memento to hang on the tree each year of your new, married life together.

Etsy crafter AtHomeWithPennie creates these etched ornaments, etched wine glasses, and many more unique, personalized gifts.


Check out her offerings right here, and place your custom order for your Winter Wedding etched-glass holiday ornament by contacting her on Etsy.


Thursday, November 3, 2016

Throwback Thursday DIY Bride from 2009

NJ photographer and childbirth doula Astin Benedetto shared her "TBT Wedding Day" pictures from 2009 with us. Frugal in every way, this November bride kept her wedding budget under $10K, made her own bridesmaid and bride bouquets, and designed/produced the wedding programs and all the decorations on her own.

When asked about her approach to wedding planning, she said: "I tried to be as non-cliche as possible. We had a very music-centric wedding!" This included a Grateful Dead tribute band, choreographed dancing, and a musical score that Astin designed herself!

A creative through and through, Astin offers a special photography package for NJ brides who are thinking about giving their husband-to-be a unique gift for the wedding. Her idea: boudoir photography sessions to local NJ brides. Now that's a wedding-day present for him to cherish for always. :)






Make-at-home wedding arch with a fall foliage theme. Love those colors!


DIY wedding curls... she doesn't even look stressed at all!
Really cute "perspective shot" with the bridesmaids! Beautiful, homemade bouquets. Curls holding up nicely!
Congrats, to the newlyweds. Now let's get on with the party!
Astin Benedetto works out of Warren County, NJ as a doula and freelance photographer. Learn more about her wedding-day boudoir photography sessions at the Scarlet Fox Boudoir. Discover her loving, caring natural childbirth support at MajesticMotherhood.com.

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Thursday, October 27, 2016

Married in a Graveyard on Halloween... Masquerade Wedding Fun

Ever wanted to just buck all the stuffy old wedding traditions and go all-out with a masquerade wedding? Hypnotherapist Becka Bossons and her husband Kevin did just that! Here are some throwback 90s wedding-day pics of their graveside nuptials held on Halloween. From the blushing Medieval bride and her Knight in shining armor, to an array of costume-clad kids dressed as Spiderman, fairy-princesses and other assorted heroes, to the wizardly father-of-the-bride... there was no limit to the creativity and fun had by this happy couple on their wedding day. To make it extra spooky, they even included traditional Pagan wedding rituals such as hand-tying and "jumping the broom." (I'll be heading to Google later on to find out more about that one!)

Check out Becka and Kevin for Throwback Thursday's Halloween Masquerade post. A fresh, fun twist to make a wedding to remember.









Submitted by Becka Bossons of TenderEmpowerment.com. Becka offers HypnoCoaching and hypnotherapy services to clients in Northestwest NJ (Hunterdon, Warren Counties) and NEPA (Bethlehem, Allentown, Easton areas). Her husband, Kevin Bossons, designs websites for a living at KevinBoss.com


Spooky Halloween Wedding Ideas - 2016

The Halloween season gives fall brides a chance to really get creative with every aspect of their wedding. Ghostly goodies, masquerade themes, pumpkins aplenty, and a bounty of harvest-themed decorative accents make this such a fun time of year to get married. Just think of the memories you'll create and the beautiful photos for your wedding album.

Below, just a bit of fall inspiration for Halloween-ish brides and grooms who want to make the most of their day. Check out the seancely table settings, goth wedding invitations, and gourd-adorned outdoor wedding venue that we found on the web, below.

Are you having a masquerade wedding? Send in your photos... we're happy to publish them on our blog for FREE!


Fanci-Fall, Romanci-Fall... found on FamilyHoliday.net



Love these Halloween wedding invitations!

Creative ideas for your Halloween themed outdoor wedding ceremony. From TheKnot.com




Are you having a Halloween wedding? Tell us about it in the comments!

Tuesday, October 25, 2016

"Last Chance to Run" Wedding Sign: Funny, Sexist, Offensive, or Don't Care?

There's a Facebook post going around covering the "Dumbest Wedding Trends of the 21st Century" and a whole bunch of people have given it a "frowny face." I assume this is because they partook in one or more of the trends at their wedding, and are now offended.

Examples include "mashtinis" which are "mashed potato martinis" (first time I'm hearing about this, ha, kinda funny really!) and "doughnut walls" (another trend that has escaped my attention until just now). My all-time favorite from their list has to be the photo of the kid holding a wedding sign that reads "Last chance to run!"



I'm wondering why some people have decided that this message is aimed at the groom and is sexist, making the blanket assumption that all grooms would want to run away on their wedding day, and all brides are "all in" for the rest of eternity.

And the same people are offended by said sign, deciding for the collective that all wedding signage should be lovey-dovey and free of negative humor.

Well, geez, doesn't anybody remember that movie Runaway Bride with Julia Roberts!?

Need I say more?

My opinion is, it's a joke, people. Lighten up. Last time I checked, jokes were funny because they held a grain of truth to them, and I don't think even the most giddy of brides has not had the fleeting thought, especially at the final hour of singledom, that she should head for the hills instead of marry that closet nose-picker, die-hard Trekkie, or whatever the groom does/is that drives her just a little bit bonkers.

Granted, I am not the type to have signs at my wedding or even around my house. But if you want to have a sign at your wedding, and if you want the sign to say "Last chance to run!" then all the power to ya, girlfriend. It's your wedding, so have it your way, is my philosophy.

What do you think? "Last Chance to Run." Funny? Offensive? Sexist? All? None? Don't care? Other?



Monday, October 10, 2016

Adelphia Restaurant Hosting FREE Wedding Reception Giveaway

Picture from this article describing Adelphia Restaurant's Free Wedding Reception Contest in detail.
I just got a heads-up from one of my roving wedding sources!

Frugal NJ Bride wishes do come true... and if you're interested in having a wonderful wedding reception at absolutely no cost, then check out this breaking news about a Wedding Essay Contest being held by the Adelphia Restaurant of Depford, NJ.

Enter to win the "Free Wedding Reception" Essay Contest by coming up with 100 words or less explaining why you feel that you and your fiance deserve to win.

The contest is open to residents of Cape May, Cumberland, Salem, Atlantic, Gloucester, Camden, Burlington, Mercer and Middlesex counties in New Jersey, and Philadelphia, Montgomery, Bucks, Delaware and Chester counties in Pennsylvania.

Entries must be submitted to the Adelphia Restaurant website. Only one submission will be allowed per individual; however, couples may be nominated as many times as possible by multiple people.

Finalists will be chosen by the Adelphia Restaurant & Events staff.

A vote for the winning couple (from among the finalists) will be held on Facebook between Nov 17 and Dec 19, 2016.

The winning couple will be announced publicly on Wednesday, December 21.

For more information about the contest, visit this link.

Thursday, October 6, 2016

5 Things That are Way Cooler than Having an Expensive Engagement Ring

When did it become acceptable for a lady to expect her poor, hardworking fellow to foot the bill for a $10,000.00 engagement ring? Ladies... a big rock on your finger does not necessarily mean love, closeness, fidelity, or any of those things you expect to give and receive in your married life.

 

Below, a ton of way-cooler ideas for making use of that $9,600.00 for your partnered life together. 

 

 An incredible honeymoon! 

 Unless you already had kids before marrying each other (that's what we did!), your honeymoon will be the last hurrah before the pressing responsibilities of married life kick in. So, make it a good one if that's what you want to do. Now is your chance to book that Island Getaway, toast to the good life in Venice, explore Dover Cliffs, or hike the Grand Canyon.

A down payment on a house. 

He kicks in 10 Gs, you kick in another 8, and you've got a good chunk to put toward your future home together. Even if your parents are well-off and generous, it feels so much better to invest your own money into the home where you will make a life with your partner and maybe even raise a family. So forgo that pricey ring, and feel really good about the promise of a great life to come!



A new car. 

Are you in the family way? Perhaps a mom-van is in the cards for you. Or, maybe your worn-out wheels are due for a replacement. Having something sparkly on your hand to glance down at during your busy day isn't the worst thing. But a shiny new (and reliable) vehicle is the far more practical option.

A fat bank account. 

An extravagant wedding might make you giddy, and a big old diamond might make you feel cherished. But those feelings quickly fade when life throws you a curve ball and you have to cough up some quick cash for a life emergency, but there's no fundage to be had. Money in the bank means sleeping better at night, and even better, with the right financial advisor on your side, that nest egg will grow and grow!

Did you go with a frugal engagement ring? What did you do with the money you saved?


Wednesday, September 28, 2016

What's the one standout feature of your wedding that you do not regret having paid for?

Continuing on with our social media convo about wedding expenses... yesterday I posed the question,

"What's the one standout feature of your wedding that you do not regret having paid for in the least?"

 
Most who responded were either food people, booze people, music people, or all of the above! "Open bar" was probably the most common answer, and the one that received the most positive feedback from Facebook Likers.

The foodies said things like:

"Food and booze. We had it at our house under a tent, so we were able to pick exactly what we wanted (caterer is a good friend) it's been 6 years and people still talk about the food!" - Angela Sulla, PA

"Ice cream bar!" - Jess Wyble, Washington NJ (GREAT idea!)

Liz Cincola of CT, expressed a special feeling for the dress she chose, and celebrated the bargain she struck on flowers

"Three favorite things: my cake (included with the reception hall), my flowers (paid at cost from my mom's long time florist), and my dress - which I went halfsies with my mom because I cried when I tried it on, and she cried when she looked at the price tag."

Ann Zuccardy, too, scored some terrific, wedding-day attire: 

"My gown. It fit me like a glove with no alterations needed, but it was last year's model and at a deeply reduced price. I think I paid just over $200 for it. (In 1988.)" 

Some ladies expressed satisfaction at having invested in a pricier photographer or videographer who did an amazing job.

Libby Lomauro of North Jersey gave her husband a thumbs-up for procuring the perfect engagement ring. "He did a great job," she said.

And Nicole Dean of Pensacola, FL confessed that her honeymoon was the best wedding-themed investment she made!

Many were pleased with the band or DJ that they had chosen, saying things like: "The band! It was our single biggest expense and worth every penny. The memories from that show last forever." (Astin Benedetto, Phillipsburg, NJ)

One savvy bride offered a service trade in exchange for her wedding-day pics:

"Our photographer (which we didn't actually pay for, my husband traded a website for) and our DJ." (Becka Bossons, PA)

The most touching response goes to Maria Stepek Doherty of the UK, who offered a more sentimental take on this question:  

"Two stand outs, marrying in the Polish community church with the Polish priest officiating and having our small, immediate family only, reception in the Polish Club which my father had helped to found and keep going since he arrived penniless as a refugee. It made a powerful sense of connection with my roots."

Funniest/most practical response goes to our lone male respondent, Mike Donatelli, who said:

"Mouthwash and Advil in the goodie bag."

I think that we can walk away from this conversation with the understanding that each person is different. Your non-negotiable wedding-day feature could be very different from mine... and yet, we might both feel as though we hit the jackpot in terms of getting a deal, finding the perfect (dress, band, photographer), etc.

Happy Wedding Planning from one Frugal NJ Bride to Another!


Monday, September 26, 2016

Mini Mason Jar Wedding Favor DIY - How Cute!






What's the one thing you spent money on for your wedding that you'd take back if you could?

Pic courtesy Classicfm.com


We asked some married ladies this question as fodder for the blog. Here's what they had to say about wedding expense regrets!

"Disposable cameras on all the tables. We have many, many duplicate amateur pics of our professional ones." - Maribeth Baker, Pennsylvania

 (Ah, yes, 90s brides will remember those disposable cameras well! How many pictures do you think are out there of wedding guests partying in sunglasses and leis?)

"Everything! I love the couples I officiate for who have small, low or no-cost weddings. If I were young and getting married today, I would take whatever might be budgeted for a wedding and make a down payment on a piece of property." - Amy Jo Garner

(Hear, hear! NJ Wedding on a Budget approves of this wise statement!)

"I wouldn't bother with the videographer or hire a better one then the one I had. 3 hours of my father in law having a great time. I just need a highlight reel. Ceremony, speeches, first dance, dance with parents, comments from the tables." - K. Wilder-Bichler, Fair Lawn, NJ

"First time? Everything and it wasn't a big wedding. Second time nothing. It was perfect. I wish we had had more money. I wanted a hearse to drive us!" - B. Bossons, Pennsylvania

"Getting my hair done by a place I wasn't familiar with. We got married in Vegas at the Venetian and one price covered photos, minstral, location, flowers. We then had the reception at a separate site. The only thing I regretted was that my hair really didn't come out the way I would have liked and the same place talked me into getting my eyebrows waxed the SAME day as the ceremony!" - Nicole Bandes

"I wish I had spent money to have food catered instead of having friends and family help so that I could have enjoyed my time with them more." - Jessica Sellers

"I think I went nuts with the flowers, honestly, who remembers what arrangements were on the tables?" - Angela Sulla, Pennsylvania

"Nothing. I did a totally low budget wedding because I think so much of the wedding stuff is a huge marketing scam, including the diamond advertisements. Actually, I wish I had been more generous and spent more money on booze. I like travel and food - it's always been my thing to go low budget on cars, home decor and the like so I can eat and travel well." - Ann Zuccardy, NYC

Good thoughts from brides who have been there! Thanks for the input, ladies. Everyone else, feel free to add your remarks in the comments section of this post.

We Love Fall Wedding Hair!

Remember, frugal NJ brides... you don't have to pay upwards of $100-200 on your wedding-day up-do. You can always ask a friend who's attending beauty school or is just good with hair, to help create an unforgettable look for your fall wedding. Below, some inspiration I found on the Googles :)

Lovely basket braid found on shortlonghairstyles.net
Boho braided beauty for your wedding day. Found on Pinterest.

Perfect up-do for medium length hair... is it me or should all red heads get married in the fall!? Found on Fashiongrapher.com

Romantic hair seems to be the wedding trend this autumn. A flower crown adds the perfect touch for long, tousled locks. Found on Brides.com   
This one is my favorite! 



The braided crown, in beautiful brown. From Brides.com


Sunday, September 25, 2016

Bride Gets Her Mug Free - Bride Tribe Glitter Mugs

Need a gift for your bride tribe? 

This personalized glitter mug set from J Crafts & Gifts makes the perfect group gift for your bridesmaid besties.
Photo property of J Crafts & Gifts.

 The bride gets her mug free when you place your group order online. Sets of 3 to 10 mugs are currently available.

Check out other great gift ideas from J Crafts & Gifts on Facebook.

Use the code FALL16 for an additional 10% off!

Sunday, September 18, 2016

Send Us Your NJ Wedding Ad, We'll Run it For Free!

Happy September! We're looking for small biz owners who market their services or products to the wedding set. Come up with a simple promo, PM the details to us on Facebook. If we like your idea, we'll publish your ad at no cost.


Examples of how to pre-package your business for the wedding market:

  • Private yoga class for the wedding party- book yours before the big day
  • Hot sauce favors for a hot couple
  • Complimentary wedding-hair test drive if you choose us as your wedding-day stylist
  • Bride's pedi is free when you sign up the bridemaids
  • 20% off his and hers night-before-the-wedding massages

Try to think creatively and don't doubt the wedding-marketability of what you sell. Some bride or groom out there might be delighted to have your stuff as their wedding gift! Let's use one more example. How about motorcycles? Ride off into the sunset!

Facebook us with all necessary content, and of course a pre-written ad.



Thursday, September 15, 2016

Wedding Day Nails Idea - French Manicure With Flower Decals

I really like the simple, romantic approach of the French manicure with dainty flower decals, for wedding day nails. You can replicate this look at home by following the video tutorial, below. Note that as a busy mom, I did the bare minimum of a manicure for myself on my wedding day. But then, I barely do my nails in regular life! Here's the video... cute and easy.




Friday, September 9, 2016

Beautiful Wedding Up Do's at Dragonfly Salon in Haskell, NJ

For any North Jersey bride-to-be and/or bridesmaids who may be in search of a great, wedding-day up-do... the girls at Dragonfly Salon in Haskell, NJ do a beautiful job. They are located at 1089 Ringwood Ave. Give them a call to learn more at (973) 835-5130. If anyone asks, tell them you saw Meghan's Facebook pictures published on this blog!

Image property of Dragonfly Salon.

Image property of Dragonfly Salon.


Friday, June 3, 2016

What's the Going Rate for a Wedding Gift in NJ in 2016?

Image belongs to FocusontheFamily.com
I came across a good article from NJ 101.5 that reveals what an acceptable amount for a wedding gift is, based on number of factors that will be unique to each person's situation.

The numbers they came up with appear to be a consensus of NJ 101.5 listeners and readers, which is why some of them are "funny" - $142?? But that's fine... I mean, isn't appropriateness typically a group decision? Hence the need to come up with an "average" - the going rate.

Based on what I read in their article, it appears that my rounded figures will still work fine when deciding how much to give the bride and groom on their wedding day.

I stated elsewhere in this blog that $100 per head is the average that you should calculate when trying to determine if you'll be able to cover your wedding-day expenses and maybe even come away with a little nest egg.

But, when giving a wedding gift, that simple, round number of $100 can acceptably increase or decrease depending on how well you know the bride and groom.

Close family members tend to give a little closer to $300 per couple, or $150 a head.

Work friends might be more likely to give $75... it depends on the relationship.

The age of the wedding guests may also come into play here. A young couple just starting out may not have as much to extend to the bride and groom as a well-off aunt or uncle.

The article on NJ 101.5's website reminds us of other deciding factors which may include:

Additional expenses that you may rack up on the day of the wedding. For example, gas, tolls, hotel, restaurant meals, shower gift, engagement gift, formal attire.

Your own, financial situation at the time of the wedding. Anyone who is experiencing financial difficulties should not be expected to make the "going wedding-gift rate," whatever it may be.

But if you are a "by the books" kind of guest, then you'll appreciate knowing that $100 per head still flies in the world of NJ weddings!



Thursday, May 19, 2016

NJ Wedding Photographer Nick Speer - Review

NJ Photographer Nick Speer of Speer Images impresses his clients with a skilled eye, and will capture all the action, emotion, subtle details and special nuances of your wedding day. Below find a review of Speer Images, from a happy client of Nick's.

Copyright Speer Images, www.speerimages.com. Phone: 973-903-6926


Tuesday, May 10, 2016

David's Bridal "Final Sale" Page

I put this pic up just because I think this dress is really cute. It's totally something I'd love to wear as a bridesmaid, or even for just a formal occasion. Image property of David's Bridal. All rights reserved.
I thought it was worth mentioning here on the NJ Wedding on a Budget blog that they have some really low-priced bridesmaid dresses on the David's Bridal Website. In my circle of friends, the most bridesmaid action I saw was in the late 1990s to early 2000s. I would say that I typically paid around $150 for a bridesmaid dress. More recently, I was a bridesmaid again in 2013, and still that price point hasn't really changed much. Although it's worth mentioning that the dress I wore this time around was above the knee, as opposed to full or tea-length which is what I wore back in the day.

Looking at the current offerings on the David's Bridal Final Sale page, and they're running as low as $30-something, which is quite amazing to me. But it also goes to show that even popular wedding vendors are trying to catch the attention of today's economical bridal party. Let's face it, times are getting tougher, starting salaries are lower, and maybe NJ brides and bridesmaids are taking a more frugal approach.

Plus, stores like David's Bridal are competing with all the secondhand bridal gown shops and online stores. So maybe they aren't getting as much of a markup as they once were. Or maybe the merchandise is coming in from China under a generic name which can greatly reduce the value of the dress. Whatever the reason, if you're shopping for low-cost bridesmaid dresses and a budget bridal gown, you should probably head over to David's Bridal's website and peruse their online offerings.

My guess is that the dresses that are being offered for the lowest prices are probably not available to try on in the store. The workaround for that is just to take your measurements, and the buy the closest size dress you can find. If you're worried about your problem areas, maybe go for the next size up and pay a local seamstress (or hit up your ma) for alterations.

Some of the gowns being shown on the David's Bridal Final Sale page are probably not suitable for a wedding that will take place in the upcoming season. For instance, if you look there now (May) you'll see dark-colored dresses that would be more appropriate for a winter wedding. Well... do some advance planning, and assuming that as a frugal bride you're not going to be picky about last year's bridesmaid dress trends... snap some up and you'll be ready for the coming fall and winter months!


Thursday, May 5, 2016

NJ Punk Rock Wedding Ideas

I attended a punk-rock wedding sometime in the late 90s. Actually, it was a punk rock vegan wedding. The reception was held at a park in Kinnelon, NJ. I remember walking up alone (I had agreed to meet my date there, the whole thing was very casual). I almost ended up at the wrong pavilion, partying with some old codgers at a 50th anniversary celebration instead.

The punk rock bride wore a short white dress. I forget what the groom's attire was (go figure) but I'm sure it was something involving combat boots or Converse hi-tops. Pretty sure they played lots of music from the Pixies and the Cramps. Dinner included vegan Setan Marsala and tortellini with asparagus and dairy-free cream sauce. Yes, of course I would remember the food.

After the meal was served and eaten, guests changed into shorts and tee shirts, and played field-day type games on the grass. It was a fun, laid-back, different kind of wedding.

Here are a few inspiring punk rock wedding pics from around the web!

A bad-ass way to advertise that you are "officially off the market!" Found on Pinterest.



Punk rock bride and groom, stickin' it to the man! But wait, what finger is that!? Pic courtesy of PleaseKillMe.com

Saucy, tattooed rebel on her wedding day. Images found on Burnettsboards.com

This is how punk rockers express their wedding-day gratitude! Pic from Offbeatbride.com


Tuesday, May 3, 2016

House-Hunting Tips for Newlyweds in NJ

NJ Realtor Vicki Brenner, on her wedding day.
Contact her at brennvlb@gmail.com or (732) 491-6126.
First comes love, then comes marriage. Then comes... first-time home buyer stress! Licensed Realtor Vicki Brenner of Weichert in Clinton, NJ helps home-seekers in Hunterdon and Warren County, NJ find the home of their dreams. Here, she shares 5 valuable tips for couples searching for their first home together.


5 Tips for First-Time Home Buyers:


Congratulations! You’ve made the decision to purchase your first home. This is a very exciting time in your life, but it also comes with a lot of responsibility. This is quite possibly the most expensive purchase you will ever make in your lifetime, and it shouldn’t be taken lightly! I’ve compiled some tips to help you make an informed, confident decision when buying your first home.

1)    Team up with a local Realtor- Your Realtor will know the ins and outs of your desired neighborhood. They will walk you through the entire process and help you purchase a great home, at an affordable price. Contrary to popular belief, homebuyers don’t pay their Realtor’s commission (in most cases); this is the seller’s responsibility. Pair up with a Realtor you connect with, and one who listens to your needs, wants, and concerns.

2)    Sit down with a mortgage lender- Meeting with a mortgage lender will give you direction when it comes to finances. Your lender will provide information on the different mortgage programs available, and help you decide which one will best suit your needs. Obtaining a mortgage pre-approval is typically an easy process, and will give you a realistic idea of what you can afford.

3)    Know what you want- write out your needs, wants, and deal breakers so your agent can find homes that you’ll actually want to look at. In the same respect, be willing to compromise. If the house you found has central air (one of your needs), but lacks granite countertops (one of your wants), consider updating the countertops at a later date.

4)    Be patient- Buying a home can be a lengthy process. Typically it takes anywhere from 35-60 days after your offer is accepted before you “close”. If you’re currently renting and know your lease is up in December, you probably want to start looking for homes in September/October to give adequate time. You may end up looking at several homes, over a span of weeks or months, before finding “the one”.  Don’t rush into it, you should be confident in your decision to avoid buyer’s remorse.

5)    Cover your bases- Buying a home involves working with several different vendors. Finding a reputable mortgage lender, home inspector, and real estate attorney (in NJ it is customary to work with an attorney) will make the process run smoothly. Your Realtor should be able to provide you with a list of preferred vendors that they have worked with in the past. If not, ask friends and relative for referrals.


Victoria “Vicki” Brenner is a licensed Realtor in the state of New Jersey, and works out of the Weichert, Realtors office in Clinton. She resides in Warren County with her husband and two children. Vicki is a member of the NAR, NJAR, and Hunterdon-Somerset Association of Realtors. For all your real estate needs, feel free to contact Vicki at: brennvlb@gmail.com or (732) 491-6126.


Thursday, April 28, 2016

NJ Wedding Photographer - Review of Speer Images

The 2016 Spring Wedding Season is upon us! Have you selected your photographer yet?

I recently became acquainted with NJ wedding photographer Nicholas Speer, owner of www.SpeerImages.com. He supplied me with some reviews from happy clients. Here's one, below.

Image copyright Speer Images, www.speerimages.com. Phone: 973 903-6926