Monday, January 27, 2014

Do NOT Buy Your Wedding Tux from Jos. A. Bank

I have decided to publicly smite Jos. A. Bank after mailing them this complaint letter regarding the tux I had fitted for my 2-year-old who was in my brother's wedding party this fall, and not hearing back. To anyone thinking of using them for their groomsmen... RUN, don't walk, in the other direction! Furthermore... what kind of store name is Jos. A. Bank? They couldn't spring for the second half of the name on their sign? Some of my friends refer to them as "Jose Banks." Also, the lack of an 's' on the word Bank is confusing. Just saying. So, here's the letter.




Jos. A. Bank
P.O. Box 1000
Hampstead, MD 21074-4000


October 4, 2013


Dear Joseph A. Bank,

I am writing to express my dissatisfaction with the service I received at your store located at 100 Reaville Avenue, Flemington, NJ.

The store employees were pleasant and said all the right things. However, it was clear from my experience, that, behind the scenes, things were not going all that smoothly. In other words: even though I was given all the info up front and asked all the right questions by the sales people... the folks who were actually procuring the tuxedo for us did not seem to care about these details.

Let me explain further.

My 2-year-old-son was scheduled to be fitted for a tuxedo to be worn at my brother's wedding on Sept 14, 2013. We live in XXXXXXX, NJ and my mother-in-law (his babysitter) is located in XXXXXXX. So I determined that, based on this proximity with his babysitter, it would be wise to do all my pre-wedding shopping in Flemington (I, too, was in the wedding party). Thus, I opted to use your Flemington store location which is about 40 minutes from my home.

I called about a month in advance of the wedding date. I was told to bring my son there on the Tuesday prior to the wedding, so that they could measure him. On Tuesday, Sept 3, I called again to be sure they knew we were coming.

When I arrived at your store with my son, we were greeted warmly and enthusiastically by a male and female employee. I did not get their names, but this was probably around 3 p.m. They were extremely nice to my little boy, measured his neck, arms, legs, waistline, and feet to be sure he'd get the correct fit. At the end of the measuring, they gave him some candy, which was also very nice of them. My little boy had a great first-time at your store. However...

A day or two later, I received a call that my son's tuxedo was ready to be picked up. Now, mind you, I live 40 minutes away (more depending on traffic), and this is a little boy of two. So... battling traffic and a willful toddler at the same time is not my idea of fun. Anyway, we arrived there for the actual tux fitting, and lo and behold... the pants are swimming on him. Also, the sleeves of the jacket are much too long. It does not appear as though anyone has actually looked at the measurements which were written down. In fact, it seems as though someone has randomly selected a tuxedo that they figure will fit a 2-year-old.

I would also like to add that for the fitting, I was sort of left to my own devices. I actually had to ask someone to help me put the tux on my son and check the fit. Okay, on the one hand I'm happy that my privacy was respected in the dressing room. But on the other, an "If you need anything, give a holler" would have been nice, or how about "Once you get the tux on him, let us know and we'll have a sales rep check the fit." Perhaps your employees don't know a lot about getting a toddler dressed, but likewise I don't know anything about tuxedos. Either way, a little concern would have been nice.

The next 40-minute drive to and from your store was made I think on Thursday (2 days before the wedding), to pick up the smaller-sized pants and check to see if the sleeves had been altered. This time, I got there later in the day because when I called at around 11 a.m., they told me the suit wasn't ready so they'd call me back. Great. So I sat around waiting for most of the day, then made ready to battle rush-hour traffic with my little son in the car for yet another long ride there and back.

When I got there, no one was manning the desk at all, so I had to poke my head around and say, "Is anybody here?" before someone finally emerged from the back of the store. I was handed a small bag, which I then opened and inside was just one pair of pants. "Do you have the rest of the suit?" I asked. "Don't you have it already?" said the salesman. "No, it's been here for alterations."

I think at this point, the silver-haired man at the counter tells me that the suit was NOT altered even though it should have been?? I want to say that they forgot to shorten the sleeves. I apologize for being unclear on this, but remember that a lot goes on the week before a family wedding that both you and your son are part of the bridal party for. All I know is, I had to make yet another trip to your store because something wasn't the way it should have been.

Somewhere during all this, I realized that shoes were a necessary part of the presentation. I am not sure if I spoke to someone on the phone or in the store about this. Perhaps I wrongly assumed that the measuring of my son's feet would result in someone procuring a pair of shoes that were the right size. I know that they did measure his feet during the initial fitting.

Anyway, no one at the tux fitting had mentioned shoes, and I had left the store not even realizing they were in the bag because I was distracted with all of this unfamiliar business. So now, at home, I find the shoes in there, but they are two sizes too big. My son wears a six and these are an eight. So I call Jos. A Banks yet again.

I hate to say it, but I don't even remember now which day I was told to come back and get the correct-size shoes. Was it the day of the rehearsal dinner, which was Friday? Or was it Saturday, the actual wedding day? All I know is that I was at your store, attending to various mishaps related to the tuxedo fitting for my son for nearly every day of this week, and with everything else that goes on the week prior to a wedding, that I don't even know. And I should have written it down, but I didn't. Anyone who has ever raised a child will know how stressful life can be at the toddler phase.

If you look into your record of this purchase, you will see the Fedex bill from the day that the shoes were overnighted. Based on this, you can likely tell me which day I was told to come in for the shoes which should have been the right size from the get-go but were not, and which none of your employees thought to ask about.

In summary: NONE of this should have been happening so close to the wedding day! As far as I'm concerned, this is how the process should have played out:

Trip 1: Arrive at store, have tux measurements taken.
Trip 2: Return for complete fit of tuxedo and shoes.
Trip 3: Drop off tuxedo the Monday after the wedding.

THAT is ALL that I should have had to do, and yet this is far from what happened. I drove to and from your store no less than SIX times (including the day I dropped off the suit post-wedding). I am completely dissatisfied with the service based on this alone.

I will admit that some of this fiasco could have been avoided if I had been a more proactive customer. But I arrived not knowing the details of how to purchase and get a tuxedo fitted. I do not feel that I was given adequate help in this area, by the people who were assumed to be the experts – the people who get PAID to sell and fit tuxedos! And the fact that nobody "behind the scenes" was paying attention to the necessary details – like my son's measurements, the size of his feet, the number of pairs of pants in the bag... just absurd.

I would like a refund for the total of $96 plus tax that I paid for my son's tuxedo, plus any additional amount that you feel would be adequate compensation for the inconvenience this has caused in my life. I would also like to remind you that a lot of gas money was spent driving an hour and a half each way to and from your store every time "yet another issue" wasn't addressed.

Please send your mailed response to XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX. I can be reached by phone at XXX-XXX-XXXX.

I appreciate your kind and prompt attention to this matter.


Warm regards,


Name Withheld

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