Thursday, May 5, 2016

NJ Punk Rock Wedding Ideas

I attended a punk-rock wedding sometime in the late 90s. Actually, it was a punk rock vegan wedding. The reception was held at a park in Kinnelon, NJ. I remember walking up alone (I had agreed to meet my date there, the whole thing was very casual). I almost ended up at the wrong pavilion, partying with some old codgers at a 50th anniversary celebration instead.

The punk rock bride wore a short white dress. I forget what the groom's attire was (go figure) but I'm sure it was something involving combat boots or Converse hi-tops. Pretty sure they played lots of music from the Pixies and the Cramps. Dinner included vegan Setan Marsala and tortellini with asparagus and dairy-free cream sauce. Yes, of course I would remember the food.

After the meal was served and eaten, guests changed into shorts and tee shirts, and played field-day type games on the grass. It was a fun, laid-back, different kind of wedding.

Here are a few inspiring punk rock wedding pics from around the web!

A bad-ass way to advertise that you are "officially off the market!" Found on Pinterest.



Punk rock bride and groom, stickin' it to the man! But wait, what finger is that!? Pic courtesy of PleaseKillMe.com

Saucy, tattooed rebel on her wedding day. Images found on Burnettsboards.com

This is how punk rockers express their wedding-day gratitude! Pic from Offbeatbride.com


Tuesday, May 3, 2016

House-Hunting Tips for Newlyweds in NJ

NJ Realtor Vicki Brenner, on her wedding day.
Contact her at brennvlb@gmail.com or (732) 491-6126.
First comes love, then comes marriage. Then comes... first-time home buyer stress! Licensed Realtor Vicki Brenner of Weichert in Clinton, NJ helps home-seekers in Hunterdon and Warren County, NJ find the home of their dreams. Here, she shares 5 valuable tips for couples searching for their first home together.


5 Tips for First-Time Home Buyers:


Congratulations! You’ve made the decision to purchase your first home. This is a very exciting time in your life, but it also comes with a lot of responsibility. This is quite possibly the most expensive purchase you will ever make in your lifetime, and it shouldn’t be taken lightly! I’ve compiled some tips to help you make an informed, confident decision when buying your first home.

1)    Team up with a local Realtor- Your Realtor will know the ins and outs of your desired neighborhood. They will walk you through the entire process and help you purchase a great home, at an affordable price. Contrary to popular belief, homebuyers don’t pay their Realtor’s commission (in most cases); this is the seller’s responsibility. Pair up with a Realtor you connect with, and one who listens to your needs, wants, and concerns.

2)    Sit down with a mortgage lender- Meeting with a mortgage lender will give you direction when it comes to finances. Your lender will provide information on the different mortgage programs available, and help you decide which one will best suit your needs. Obtaining a mortgage pre-approval is typically an easy process, and will give you a realistic idea of what you can afford.

3)    Know what you want- write out your needs, wants, and deal breakers so your agent can find homes that you’ll actually want to look at. In the same respect, be willing to compromise. If the house you found has central air (one of your needs), but lacks granite countertops (one of your wants), consider updating the countertops at a later date.

4)    Be patient- Buying a home can be a lengthy process. Typically it takes anywhere from 35-60 days after your offer is accepted before you “close”. If you’re currently renting and know your lease is up in December, you probably want to start looking for homes in September/October to give adequate time. You may end up looking at several homes, over a span of weeks or months, before finding “the one”.  Don’t rush into it, you should be confident in your decision to avoid buyer’s remorse.

5)    Cover your bases- Buying a home involves working with several different vendors. Finding a reputable mortgage lender, home inspector, and real estate attorney (in NJ it is customary to work with an attorney) will make the process run smoothly. Your Realtor should be able to provide you with a list of preferred vendors that they have worked with in the past. If not, ask friends and relative for referrals.


Victoria “Vicki” Brenner is a licensed Realtor in the state of New Jersey, and works out of the Weichert, Realtors office in Clinton. She resides in Warren County with her husband and two children. Vicki is a member of the NAR, NJAR, and Hunterdon-Somerset Association of Realtors. For all your real estate needs, feel free to contact Vicki at: brennvlb@gmail.com or (732) 491-6126.


Thursday, April 28, 2016

NJ Wedding Photographer - Review of Speer Images

The 2016 Spring Wedding Season is upon us! Have you selected your photographer yet?

I recently became acquainted with NJ wedding photographer Nicholas Speer, owner of www.SpeerImages.com. He supplied me with some reviews from happy clients. Here's one, below.

Image copyright Speer Images, www.speerimages.com. Phone: 973 903-6926


Wednesday, April 27, 2016

Celtic Wedding Frame - an Irish Blessing Makes the Perfect Gift!

I'm a sucker for Irish poetry and especially Irish blessings. I'm not even Irish! But I did marry one, so I get to be an honorary Celt on St. Patrick's Day at least. Irish prayers, with their simple words and heartfelt sentiments, tend to make me a little misty.

Whether you were born into the heritage, are betrothed to a Hibernian, or simply love collecting blessings from the Emerald Aisle or even around the world... you can find a beautiful Celtic Blessing to hang proudly in your home, right on Etsy.com.

Etsy is the online home for handmade and vintage items. I've made many a purchase from an Etsy crafter or collector, and I'm always delighted with what arrives.


Celtic Wedding Blessing - Picture Frame Wedding Gift

This one reads, "May joy and peace surround you. May contentment latch your door. And happiness be with you now. And may God bless you evermore."

Matted on the highest quality picture frame, it makes a beautiful wedding gift to present to your son or daughter and their wife or husband. A beautiful keepsake to cherish for always!

Click this link to view the product in detail, and to order on Etsy.com.



Here's another framed Irish Blessing to grace the home of the newly married couple. Hand lettered, and can be personalized with the family name.

This one reads:

God bless the corners of this house
And be the lintel blest.
And bless the hearth and bless the board
And bless each place of rest.
And bless each door that opens wide
To strangers and to kin.
And bless each crystal window pane
That lets the starlight in.
And bless the roof tree overhead,
And every sturdy wall
The peace of man, the peace of God,
The peace of love on
All.

This picture frame is available in several different versions. View product photos and place your order on Etsy.com.

My favorite Irish blessing, printed in beautiful calligraphy and matted on a high quality frame...

"May the Road Rise to Meet You" - the perfect wedding gift!

May the road rise to meet you
May the wind be at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rains fall soft open your fields
And, until we meet again
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.

View the product and order on Etsy.com

Monday, April 25, 2016

How to Get Fit and Fab for Your Wedding Without Joining a Gym

Picture courtesy Blisstree.com
What bride doesn't want to look good on her wedding day? I kind of wish I knew then what I know now about exercise, feeling good, and how stress can take its toll on your looks as much as it does on the way you feel inside. I like to think that my looks and health have improved since the day we tied the knot, with a toddler running around, and me sleep deprived and running on empty!

Here are some suggestions I can offer for the busy bride who doesn't feel like forking up a gym membership because she's saving some bank for the big day:

Start doing yoga. I can't say enough about the way that yoga has made a positive impact on my appearance and my health. Yoga, when done correctly, lowers cortisol levels and reduces food cravings. Yoga breathing techniques heal the parasympathetic nervous system which in turn delivers benefits to the endocrine and immune systems. Yoga stretches release muscle tension which helps the body heal faster. It also tones and elongates the muscles, making them stronger and also giving you a more lean and feminine appearance.

Yoga expands and strengthens the lungs when you practice deep breathing. It makes you more aware of bodily sensations, like when your stomach has had enough food (it needs a lot less than you might think!). Finally, yoga helps you sleep better at night, ensuring that you will know how to get yourself in a relaxed state as your wedding day approaches.

Even if your wedding isn't for another full year, start practicing yoga now. There are plenty of websites where you can learn more, Youtube videos to teach you the correct postures and breathing, and a whole lot more information available. 
Below find the book that changed my life and taught me everything I know about learning yoga at home:
 
Take up running. You don't have to run for miles and miles to get a more fit physique. If you're already doing the aforementioned yoga at least 3 times a week, you can run for about a half-hour for about 2 days a week. Running not only strengthens the legs, but it releases muscle tension via the pounding feet. I don't have a scientific explanation for this, but I've watched fitness videos of people destressing their muscles by shaking them out, and running seems to be a good way to rhythmically shake your stress away in somewhat controlled, well-paced movements.

Where to run if you don't have a gym membership? The park, the neighborhood, the high school athletic field, the local bike and jogging path. Pounding your feet on the pavement is a great way to improve your stamina, get heart-healthy, and of course burn calories which is ideal for looking trim and fitting into that gorgeous wedding gown. Sunshine and fresh air have their positive effects as well!

When you're finished taking your jog, don't forget to stretch after. You can use the same moves that you do in your yoga routine, such as downward-facing dog, the hamstring stretch and forward fold. Just be sure to do your post-cardio yoga in the same order that you would if you were doing in a class or on a video. The asanas all flow together to target specific muscle groups while ensuring that you keep your body in balance. For example, follow camel pose with child's pose to keep the spine properly aligned.

In addition to jogging and yoga, there are some good weight loss tricks that don't *really* involve dieting or calorie counting. Try drinking green tea several times a day. Start your morning with a glass of water that includes a Tablespoon of fresh lemon juice or apple cider vinegar. When done habitually, this cleansing drink can assist with weight management by improving digestion of fats and sugar.

The Europeans seem to have a good thing going with their "eat the biggest meal in the middle of the day, and end with a light dinner." (Not sure if they still do this in Europe, but I've tried it at home and I sleep way better on a light evening meal, not to mention it can help me shed extra pounds when I need to.)

If you do feel snacky, try a handful of nuts, cup of yogurt, or piece of fruit with a bit of cheese, to sustain you between meals. Avoid snacks that are high in sugar or corn syrup. Choose healthy fats such as those from nuts, seeds, coconut oil, and salmon. Check out the below book, "The Complete Mediterranean Diet," for more ideas on how to eat for optimum health!



May these "no gym" fitness tricks help you get the bod you're hoping for in time for your beautiful wedding day!